# How to react when someone insults you

Have you faced these kinds of situations in your life when someone insulted you, ignored you, tried to put you down or made fun of you ?

I think many of you will reply 'yes' to me.

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We know very well that all people are not equal on the earth but it is also a bitter truth that we find some naughty stuff in society who are always willing to interfere in the affairs of others. People who come in this category are strangers, relatives and even a few family members who are always in pursuit of creating problems for others by insulting or making fun of them.

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We work for some reasons. In the same way, some people insult or try to pull us down for some reason and these are jealousy, boasts, insecurity, show off, hide flaws and lack of understanding etc.

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Jealousy- In our workplace or living place we can find people who are jealous of us. They don’t like our work or us. They start hating us if our work goes well. To decrease their jealousy, they try to insult us or make fun of our work or dress Sense. To reduce their jealousy they make someone feel embarrassed by their talk or behaviour and this works like a medicine for them which treats their jealousy.

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Boasts- In society, it’s not hard to find people who boast about themselves. They think superior to them and try to show that they know each and everything and put efforts to make others feel inferior. They indulge in the habit of boasting. For this, they are always in search of a chance to boast themselves by insulting others.

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Insecurity- In families, relatives and colleagues there are some people who feel insecure by our strong determination or good nature. When we get appreciation from someone, they think of themselves lacking behind. For this reason, they pull our legs or try to insult us in public places because they think that by doing this they can secure themselves. This type of tawdry behaviour shows that they are insecure.

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Showing off- Nowadays showing off clothes and luxury life has become the trend. People compete with each other for a rich lifestyle, branded clothes, costly cars and bikes, high profile schools, colleges and parties. But every person can’t afford this status and lifestyle. They get insulted by these high profile people at many places which leave a negative impact on them. Occasionally, this leads them in the fields of crime. People who insult others on the bases of property, clothes and rich lifestyle think themselves above all. But this indicates their cheap mentality.

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Hide Flaws- Every human being on this earth born with some forte and some flaws. But rare people accept their deficiencies and take it in a positive way. Rest try to hide them. Cowardly people who don’t want others to come to know about their flaws, they start seeking drawbacks of others because they wanna conceal their flaws. For this reason they target others by revealing their drawbacks in front of everyone .

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Lack of understanding- Due to lack of understanding some people get insulted but later that issue gets solved.

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Then, how to tackle and get rid of such kinds of people and situations ?

Anyways there are a few steps by following them you can overcome with this problem -

@ Silence & Smile:- Silence & smiles work well to get out of this problem. Just keeping silent and putting a cute smile on your face 😊is the best reply to the people who insult you or make fun of you. After getting your silence and smile, they get irritated because they don’t expect such a reply from your side.

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@ Face expressions:-

Whenever anybody insults you or tries to pull you down remember one thing, never create an issue on this stupidity as this shows that you get affected by that person who insults you and this one of your reactions increase their courage and next time they target you again. Just keep your facial expressions normal because this shows to them that you don't react to such things which are useless for you and you have much more to do in your life.

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@ Say "thanks" or "ohh really….just like you" :- People who insult you or pull your legs in front of all by targeting your dress Sense, flaws or things related to you, in that case you should reply by saying that - "thanks" or "ohh really…just like you". Believe me, the reply given by you not only shows your sensible behaviour but also compels people to think that you don’t have such a cheap mentality.

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@ Letup that place and person silently after completing their comments:- This is also one of the best replies to those people who always try to find out the ways to make you feel embarrassed or contradict you in between. When they finish their useless talk just let go of that place and person silently, this reaction will make them realise that they have no place anywhere in your life and also leave a great impact on them about your strong personality.

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@ Stop talking to them:- Stop talking to that person for sometime who insults you or makes you feel inferior among others.This will surely help you to get out of this situation.

So, according to me, by following these steps you not only overcome this situation but also get inner power which helps you to make your personality strong. Applying these methods in your life are the finest retort and speechless slap from your side to those people who try to pull you down in front of all.

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